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Becca Mas
11 days ago

My boss and coworkers are

I work at a hotel, and they recently opened a new restaurant in our same building. I spoke with the hiring manager at the restaurant about possibly working there part time, and he told me to bring him my resume and we could go from there. When I returned to work after my day off, my coworkers were being kind of rude, and making odd comments and laughing. Someone even tore my name badge off my storage cubical. I didn’t understand what was going on... until I found this:

By the front desk was the resume I had given to the restaurant manager, except it had ‘corrections’ written by my current manager all over it. And as I read it, the jokes my coworkers had been making suddenly made sense- they had read it too!

I’m so embarrassed and violated and hurt. I don’t know what to do.

Any advice? Thank you! #advice #management #bullying #resume #coworkers #discrimination #violation #privacy

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Terrance Martin

That is so wrong Christina..Lowes is the worst after I was there 7 months they found out I had a 21 yr old felony and they let me go. And they had just gave me a promotion 2 days b4

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Orlando Santana

Christina, don't take it personal, when they promoted you you acquire certain responsibilities with the pay increase, of course there will be jealousy amongst your previous co-workers grow thicker skin and take it one day at a time simply doing your best as a human being should get your group straighten out. I have been through it myself and was quite difficult, faith and patience seems to work every time.

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Janet Brady

so you had a card and lost it ? so you applied for a replacement card. i lost my card and i got the replacement in two weeks. do you have one now, maybe you have to go in and show it to them. now if you were working there already with out proof of being documented. they should not have hired you to begin with. that is there mistake and would have gotten them in trouble for not doing so. were you paid under the table since you were not paying taxes. is the company trying to become legit, maybe they are already in trouble. what ever the case i would move on and find a new job.

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Kaylin Berry
about 1 month ago

Perfectionist Boss/Derogatory Commentary

So I work for a pretty large network, akin to a government facility so there are lots of people i have worked with and met over the 3 years working here part time: Im 23 and just graduated from college and am more looking for full time positions. My former head supervisor was an amazing women like a second mother, truly a nurture and she taught me so much in the 2 years we worked together, sadly she left in July. Her second in command is about 27/28 and can into the scene about same time and so we have all worked together for 2 years. With my supervisor leaving her next in command was into her position, leaving a full time opening. I applied for this. Prior to applying I have applying to several over job openings in the network and not heard much back. As the change of command has shifted so has the relationship with my boss. It is as if she has become on the lookout for my mistakes. At one I was discussing life and living and she makes a comment about how I am a “child” and how I “ can’t even get an apartment” mind you I work part time, and she said this with all seriousness. On another point she texted me saying she would be writing me up because I didn’t not clock in or out and it would result in a suspension, even though I was not working. Also she made a comment about how she had not seen anything impressive in the time she has worked with me, and how despite most it being covid and things being shut down for a lot of the time we worked together. It was as if the only thing she could see was my age and my mistakes when she looks at me. At one point she mentioned how, “whenever she sees me doing nothing she’s going to make note for my evaluation”. Of which thankfully a higher supervisor sat in with. I have started to send weekly email reports with all the things in the week I accomplished in order to show her my part in this job since she chooses to ignore it. I know bevahe of this attitude I would not have gotten the job. But I still believe I shouldn’t have to deal with this. I’ve been shorted my hours, scheduled the worst shifts, but I work for a GREAT purpose and I adored my job before she came into command. I frankly work my butt off for these people and give them alot of my holidays and TONS of my weekends and I would appreciate a little respect. Please tell me if I’m losing my cool over nothing. #management #advice #coworkers # #workenvironment #stressful #interview

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rolando velasquez
28 days ago

Workplace dilemma…

so this coworker accused me of stealing the master keys to the place today and she started calling management and her bosses spreading lies and telling them that they should fire me and call the police without no evidence whatsoever . Turns out that the keys were misplaced by the janitor himself and were found later on . Can I file a report or press charges on her for defamation of character and falsely accusing me of stealing the keys ? #management #termination #interview #advice #legal #coworkers

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Jennifer Swanson
over 6 months ago

Office

11yrs of learning & building & 100% full best interest in company & growth... Went way out of ways & duties & under paid &! Acknowledged . Also allowed when benifits them. But when a hard emotional series of illness & death in multpy times & numbers ! Out of any control or timing! Costly to me in many levels ! Emotions, time & $$ that had to be supplied... I was bery much in contact in many ways z however was lied &! Set / played against... Very wrong &! Dirtly ways with false info. Then totally denied unemployment! 11 yrs there! No time to get health- prescription handled ! Havevto pay back benifits i was told didn't get .... Spiral down fall started !!!! Just totally atomished by so called life friend burnt me hard &! Killed my soul! I supported her 1 1:2 yrs on mental changes, home &! Secrity plus gave a job which she stole of mine! Backstabbing & raw ! Totally broken

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San Dee
over 6 months ago

Getting dropped off

I recently had a job as a home healthcare caregiver, I worked at this job for 4 years, I was places at many different homes, recently I was terminated because my car had to go to the shop so I had my boyfriend drop me off for my overnight shift. A co worker text me earlier that day and asked if I could give her a ride home, no big deal right? I went to work 30 mins early to pick take her home...my boyfriend was in the car. She claimed to feel very uncomfortable about him saying "she can't do this all the time, if the boss finds out your both in trouble" she called the boss and told her I had him drop me off, and he now knows where our client lives. I was fired that day, was told I should have Taken a cab or uber because I violated a federal law (h.I.p.a.a) does anyone know if this is true?

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Mel Bailey
over 6 months ago

Interacial dating firing

As i said earlier they fired me for dating someone on the job because we were an interacial couple. They had no rules unless you were a manager dating a subordinate. We were neither. I was one of the top performers been with the company for over 19 yrs. No previous issues. But they found a reason.

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Jennifer Young
Community Specialist
3 months ago

Would you rather have a coworker tell you that you're not doing a good job, or have them keep it to themselves?

#wouldyouratherWednesday #coworkers #feedback I've had coworkers offer really good feedback in the past, but I've also worked with some judgy ones...

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Jennifer Young
Community Specialist
3 months ago

Has this happened to you? They stole my stuff!

I had my coat stolen at work. It was taken from the break room - so I know it didn't wander off with customers. This was a while back and it was at a big store where I wasn't close with any of my #coworkers. I reported it to my manager, but the coat was never returned - so I don't think it was a mistake. Do you think it's normal to have your stuff taken when you work at a big place and your coworkers are strangers?

#advice

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Colin Rocker Rice

😭😭😭

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Lesley Shafer

I to had this happen except it isn't a big place, we all work closely together unless your on opposite shift (morning vs. Evening) I left my very expensive raincoat and it was stolen from break room. I told the manager but cameras didn't catch the thief so we know it was an employee because they knew how to dodge cameras. The manager did nothing about it! I'm still angry! That coat cost close to $200! I still don't know what to do about it!

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