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Mark Jorges
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Knowing whether to stay....or go.

A topic that hasn't been discussed much here in the forum is how and when to leave a job appropriately, especially when you are a new hire going through training. Often during an interview, it's nearly impossible to ascertain whether the job you've applied for is the right "fit".

Now when we talk about "fit" in terms of workplace culture we're referring to the climate of the work site. Do you get along with your co-workers. Do you like the energy of the place? After all, you may spend a year or 20 years there so it should be somewhere you can be comfortable.

After you go through training and/or shadowing, you'll begin to integrate in to your new environment.

Here are some things to think about moving forward.

1.) Do the employees seem happy there? If everyone is doom and gloom most of the time, there's a definite reason. You will likely find out that reason sooner, rather than later.

2.) Does management listen to staff and seem to care about their employees? Is this worksite a culture of democracy or autocracy?

3.) Listen and Learn. Employees will share the culture of the work environment with you. All you need to do is pay attention and respond accordingly.

4.) How helpful has the organization been in terms of accommodating your requests and making you feel welcome?

5.) Pay attention to red flags! If something feels wrong or amiss, then it probably is. Always trust your first instincts because they are typically spot-on.

"When someone tells you who they are, believe them."

There's nothing wrong with leaving a job too early, but don't regret leaving a job too late.

Make decisions out of confidence, not out of fear.

#interview #motivation #officelife #unemployment

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pinklotus IM
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Supervisor at Cambodia English

Great advice Mark, thank you.

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Laura Turner
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Hi Mark! This is a great and relevant topic to many, thanks for sharing!

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Jim Keeling
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Welcome to Lowe's! Doom and gloom!

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oseas Coronado Jiménez
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David and Mark, thank you. I"m about to face tis step" and sure will help me a lot to make better decisions.

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David Harvey
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Leaving after a year creates question for someone reading your resume later. Leaving after a week providing you end up employed has no negative impact in the future. So if it was a mistake, get out. But read Mark's comments before you accept a new job, and see if you can clarify anything before hand. If you leave after the first day, some introspection on why you missed that is in order.

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Thomasina Coleman
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My humble belief Mark, I agree 200 percent. I live by this. 90 days should not only be for a company's time frame to determine your fit, you should as well. No one wants to be miserable for 8 hours a day. It takes wear and tear on the body, mind and soul and is this company worth shortening your life span?

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Great insight Mark. I think these are 5 awesome things to consider. For me, I love the 3rd one. Listening, processing and picking up on the cues that others give you is very important. Personally, I feel listening is a skill that needs to be nurtured. It's more powerful than people think and often ignored.

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Dianne Liu
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Mark, thank you for your insightful advise!

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Nihar Suthar
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This is amazing information Mark!

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Mark Bryan
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Great advice, Mark! Thanks for the tips!

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