honestly I would have to tell them that its never going to be easy and unless you are willing to kill no matter what its not a good job for you and if they are ok with that then understand that spending the days before you leave with family and friends are very importing because you never know if you will see them again or not ,that's real and I speak real ,I never thought that I would ever see my family again ,

well honestly you don't have time for mistakes in the army win your in war, but ill share a time that a child was strapped with a bomb and I could not fined it in my heart to kill a 2 yr old so I did what I should have not done and de armed the bomb , and saved the child live , so that was a big no , no to the army because I could have died that day ,but I saved a child and she is growing up and being a child now