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Marijoy Bertolini
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Talking yourself out of a job – or not

“WHAT DID HE JUST SAY?!” immediately went through my head. My second thought was, “Oh, no. My STAR candidate just TALKED HIMSELF OUT OF A JOB!” I had just asked my candidate to outline a strategy to achieve the primary goal of the position for which he was interviewing… and he said, “Oh, that would be hard. Those people (the clients) are awful to work with.” My candidate has 13 years of experience. He has built whole departments from the ground up, including in a startup environment. Is the job hard? Yes, no doubt. But he was INTERVIEWING TO GET HIRED. This is an example of someone who has talked himself out of the job. Now, don’t get me wrong. It’s not impossible to recover from saying the wrong thing. If he admitted that ‘that came out wrong.’ Or said, ‘The clients are tough, but I’ve had success doing (an example or 2 )…’ Or ‘I think clients would respond well to your company because I’ve seen (example) work well,’ we would have moved along and had a really engaging conversation. As it was, however, there was nowhere to go. I asked follow up questions to give him an opportunity to recover, to no avail. Unfortunately, I could not move forward because he had just told me that he’s not interested in moving forward – because moving forward would mean working with (paying) clients who are ‘awful’. And he stuck to it. Sorry, but there are so many great candidates out there, I want someone who is excited by the challenge. Also, HE deserves to find a role that HE’S excited about.
And that’s the moral of the story: there are lots of jobs & lots of candidates out there in the world. Your experience is valuable – you are valuable – so take the time to understand what the new company needs, make sure your experience translates well, and use your experience to sell the heck out of yourself!

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Sang Hem
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Just had surgery 3 weeks ago and it's so I sweating like a pig and I have to work in this hot hot weather and I work out doors washing it is not going to be pleasant at all

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Braylon Randall
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Damn it! Sorry, but I think this just happened to me. Interviewed with a top choice employer this month. I’m talking dream job opportunity that I’ve been preparing for the last six months. All was going well, passed pre-employment assessment tests, phone interview and first round of HR interviews. Met a week later with department manager and had a great conversation about previous performance, contribution potential to the team, and job expectations. He told me everything was was moving along well and everyone in the department was excited about having me on the team. All that positive feedback must have got into my my head and boosted my confidence in ego level to the point where I got too comfortable in the conversation and accidentally put my foot in my mouth at the end of the interview. I offered too much personal opinion information on a subject that wasn’t even part of the interview line of questioning. I knew I messed up after I said it.The interviewer's body language and follow-up questions told me something went wrong but I refused to believe it. How can 90 minutes of interview excellence be destroyed by a 10 second misdirected statement? 3 weeks and I haven’t heard any news, hired/fired?? Stupid, Stupid mistake! Is there anyway to recover?

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