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Andie Abrams
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IHOP waitress 🍒

My general manager has become verbally aggressive towards me and I'm afraid to go back into work but I've been put on the new schedule for next week! What should I do? I'm so intimidated. # #advice #management #helpme

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Annemarie Ross
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You are being bullied, get to HR asap. Start keeping a journal and write down all the encounters you have had with them and what was said . once an incident happens you often get so upset you don’t remember the details. Do your due diligence to protect yourself.

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Susan Smith
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I had an older woman I had to work with one time. Her son was the owner of the store. She was rude and obnoxious and I was in tears once. I went in the next day and asked her “Is there something I’ve done to offend you?” She was completely taken by surprise and asked me why. I told how she treated me and I didn’t know if I had done something. She apologized and from that day on she was nice. Try it.

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Randall Smelser
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Partial Owner Responsable For Generating Revenue at Arizona Mall Enterprises Incorporated

Stop being a baby. Oh, they were mean to me! Who cares? Show up, do your work, if disrespected then tell that person to their face you feel unfairly treated and it needs to stop. We teach people how to treat us. If you don't want to be bullied, then don't play the game. Stand up for yourself in the workplace or you will never succeed.

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Gregory Go
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Upcoming business graduate seeking an internship position

is it racial? sexual? or physical ? It can be an uphill battle

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Eric Dryden
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Associate Manufacturing Production Lead at Micron

Verbally aggressive- did your boss say get back to work? People are soft a squish now days. Weak mind .

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Edward Gallup
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Forman at Scott Construction

I've been through send me a situations I think you should go to the nearest spy store or go to a spy store online buy a recording device that looks like a button or something you can put in a shirt pocket or they have apps that are recording devices too kill him with kindness because nice as you can to them at all times and let him do the rest a month later bring the recording to the right people or a week later a day later however long it takes him to completely hang himself but people like that have got their probably in shady ways so I would get as much dirt on him as you can before you make a move so you don't see your hand. Be safe God says fear no evil God has sent berserkers to handle problems maybe he needs you to do a simple task for him and handle this problem you get the guy in recording he won't be able to do it to anybody else don't rush though get as much recording as you can be thorough I believe in you

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Toby White
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Talk to her about your feelings and if no steps are taken to improve the aggressiveness then use the higher person in the chain of command.

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Sharon E
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Staff Nurse at New York

Does he have a secretary? Set up a meeting and let him know how you feel. Let him know you would like for him to speak to you with respect. If he does not change, please speak to HR and tell them you would like to make a complaint. HR would be responsible for investigating your claim and speaking to him. Make sure the complaint is in writing and keep a copy for yourself. Don’t let him treat you less than what you deserve in the work place.

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Anthony M Cioppa
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Hey Andie I really am touched by your honesty about your situation and I say go for broke and nail this idiot,I just lost almost everything and I had a similar situation at a auto sales job so I left and much to my surprise this is the best time to get in the job market, and that is coming from a guy who has been self employed his whole life, and as a woman you have more power than you think,I know I posted about these scam jobs online but I'm up tonight very excited because I have 5 offers this week all above 50,000 and were talking non college plus these temp agencies are paying 15-20 a hour no job or money is worth what this fool is doing to you. Iam happy to help you in any way I can and guide you I am so touched by your honesty and if I still had my company I would hire you in a second. DONT BE AFRAID TO GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE,If one good thing came from the COVID 19 PANTOMIME IS COMPANIES AND DESPERATELY HIRING.... PLEASE LET ME KNOW HOW THIS WORKS OUT OR IF YOU NEED A GAME PLAN I LIVE TO NAIL EGO MANIACS LIKE THIS....... HANG IN THERE.

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Patrice Lafumba
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tu as un cochon pour patron..nes't pas?

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