
Coping with a prolonged job search
Job search is a challenging, time-consuming task, even under the best of circumstances.
Hiring doesn't always move as quickly as most job seekers would like. A few months into the process, it's easy to get disenchanted and it's totally natural to feel a little panicky.
The truth is, job searching is a marathon, not a sprint. Sure, there are stories of the lucky few who landed new jobs in less than 30 days. But rest assured: Those situations are the rare exceptions.
According to U.S. News, the general rule of thumb is this: For every $10,000 per year you expect to earn in income, plan for one month of job search. So, if you're expecting to make about $60,000 per year, your job search should take about six months. This is, of course, only a rough estimation. With the right resume and the right contacts, it could be faster. And, if you're looking to shift to a new career path, it could take even longer.
If you've been searching for a new job and it's taking longer than you think it should, here are some important steps to get your search back on track.
- Manage the Emotions
People often discount the emotional aspects of job search, but that can have devastating consequences. Financial stress, desperation and panic can lead to bad decisions. Wallowing in self-doubt and self-pity will only harm your confidence. All of these feelings are natural, but they aren't serving you.
Whatever you're feeling, acknowledge it and work to channel that energy in a positive direction. Take the time you need to care for yourself emotionally. Spend time with friends and family and engage in leisure activities that have nothing to do with job search. You'll return to your search refreshed and in a better position to handle the ups and downs ahead of you.
- Consider Short-Term Solutions
Consider part-time, project-based or consulting work as an interim solution between jobs. This can help ease the financial strain and give you some much needed breathing room. Plus, you can still continue your job search in your off hours. Don't let your ego or preconceived ideas of what "should" happen prevent you from looking at all options.
- Stick To a Routine
It's always helpful to keep a consistent routine with your job search activities. At the onset, people get excited and pour a ton of time and energy into their search. Then, feeling exhausted and disappointed, they neglect it for a period of time. After a while, they again feel inspired and hit the proverbial pavement hard, starting the cycle once more. Don't fall into this pattern of behavior. Instead, aim for consistent, sustainable effort. It'll feel better and you'll see better results.
- Get Out of Your Comfort Zone
If you've been engaged in the same job search activities for a while, it may be time to try some new strategies. Sure, it can be hard to get out of your comfort zone, but clearly the tactics you're using aren't getting the results you want. Check out a networking group such as Jobcase for example, where you can engage with other job seekers, industry experts and business leaders; share ideas, advise, techniques, knowledge, etc. Try a new resume format or switch up your LinkedIn profile. Trial and error is often the best way to learn what works and what doesn't. So, if things aren't working, it's time for some new trials.
- Consult an Expert
Lastly, if your job search is taking more time than you'd like, consider working with a career counselor or coach.
Let's face it: You're not an expert at job searching. This isn't what you do for a living! It's not surprising you may struggle a bit. But there are plenty of people out there who are experts – and they're available to help you.
A career counselor or coach can help you refine your search strategies, identify areas for improvement in your resume and help you upgrade your interview skills. They can help you better understand what the market is looking for and how you fit in. They may also be able to point out gaps in knowledge or experience that may be holding you back.
In short, a career expert can help you see things you aren't currently seeing. If you've been job searching for six months or more without success, it's time to invest in yourself. You may find that a few simple tweaks have an immediate, powerful impact.
Remember that finding a new job is, almost inevitably, a long and tedious process. But it's worth it. Be patient and persistent – and also be smart about it. Use all of the tools at your disposal to make your search faster and easier.

That's right and sometimes people have to realise that YOU have to be diligent in your search. Because most jobs don't go to you. You have to go to them

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Absolutely Fabulous suggestions and strategies in this piece Patrick Coppedge , very encouraging. I just shared this conversation with Cheryl Mitchell who's currently trying to navigate through an extremely stressful and frustrating job search, see No hope.
I found an NPR piece this morning that talks about the underemployment problem in the US today. The article goes on to describe how hiring managers search for skills that go beyond the duties of the job which results in miscasting qualified applicants from those job opportunities. Just another example of how broken the employment community has become. I'll add the article below in case you want to check it out.
Cheryl Mitchell condition is unfortunately not an uncommon one. I've been in this community for a couple of years now and one thing I know for sure is that job seekers who experience extended job search terms suffer greatly if they don't have a coping plan and home support. I'm so grateful you took the time to put this conversation together. Thank you!
https://www.npr.org/2018/07/15/629212924/the-call-in-underemployment