Responding to things you really shouldn't but just comfort the person in their tribulation. This girl was going through something I had gone through as a fellow bartender on the job she was upset just like me saying the same stuff I said when I was New. I told her try not to argue with them and just pray about it cause I had finally gotten peace through prayer by then. I didn't know i offended the girl by saying that the next day at work I got into it with someone and was really upset and argued with them and I saw the girl bartending with me again and she told me remember what you told me about my situation with them maybe you should pray about it. I was like you are right no offense taken