Ways To Improve Your Communication Skills
The art of communication is an essential parts of a persons overall measure of professional and personal success. Successful people are able to meaningfully communicate with others.
Steve Jobs inspired his employees to strive for perfect hardware products. Jack Welch mentored the senior leadership team of GE to new heights. Jeff Bezos is known for articulating the Amazon ethos clearly to employees and the world. All of these professionals possess outstanding communication skills.
Although this article focus effective communication skills on a speaker presenting his message to an audience, many of the same techniques are equally effective where one person is engaging in conversation with one, or several other persons. Here are some proven ways you can improve your communication skills in order to become a more effective professional.
Techniques of Effective Communication:
1. Learn the basics of nonverbal communication.
One study found that nonverbal communication accounted for 55 percent of how an audience perceived a presenter. That means that the majority of what you say is communicated not through words, but through physical cues.
To communicate clearly and confidently, adopt proper posture. Avoid slouching, folding your arms or making yourself appear smaller than you are. Instead, fill up the space you are given, maintain eye contact and (if appropriate) move around the space.
2. Over-communicate just to communicate.
In 1990, a graduate student at Stanford University was able to prove that presenters overestimate how much listeners understand. In a study that become known as “the tappers and the listeners,” one set of participants was asked to tap the melody of 120 famous songs. The other participants were asked to guess what song was being tapped.
Tappers estimated that 50 percent of the songs tapped would be correctly identified. In reality, only 2.5 percent of songs were correctly identified. This study shows that it is important to communicate clearly, and to over-communicate when sharing new ideas. As this study indicates, it is likely that the audience will fail to absorb as much as you expect.
3. Make what you say interesting.
People pay more attention to an interesting communicator. Make what you say more appealing and worth paying attention to. Be prepared to use words, compelling storytelling and nonverbal cues to communicate your point with your listener or audience.
4. Seek honest feedback.
As with most professional skills, receiving honest feedback from peers, managers and members of your team is critical to becoming a better communicator. If you regularly solicit feedback, others will help you to discover areas for improvement that you might have otherwise overlooked.
5. Engage the audience in discussion.
Regardless of how compelling the speaker is, all audiences have limited attention spans. To become a more effective communicator, make presentations and discussions interactive. Try to draw your listeners attention to your message and ideas you are trying to communicate.
Use questions to encourage your listener's or audience's participation. Calling out their thoughts during your conversation will keep them stimulated and engaged and will help you to gauge the effectiveness of your message delivery. Another effective way to stimulate your audience is by asking hypothetical questions.
6. Start and end with key points.
Think back to the “tappers and listeners” study mentioned earlier. Clear communication is of paramount importance. To ensure that your listener understands the key takeaways from your message, reiterate key points at the start and finish of your conversation.
7. Master the art of timing.
While some of their jokes might not be appropriate for the workplace, standup comedians are certainly effective communicators. Comedians like Will Ferrell, Chris Rock and Dave Chappelle are able to host compelling 90-minute comedy shows, in part because they have mastered the art of timing.
Great comedians, like all great communicators, are able to feel out their audience to determine when to move on to a new topic or when to reiterate an idea.
8. Get comfortable speaking extemporaneously.
When lawyers present a case in front of the United States Supreme Court, they typically speak extemporaneously. That is to say, the lawyers write down a series of topics they intend to discuss, but they do not memorize what they would say word for word. This method of communicating allows the lawyers presenting a case to cover all of the necessary points, while giving them flexibility as to how to communicate based on audience reaction or questions.
Business communicators should consider adopting an extemporaneous speaking style. It takes practice, but it will allow for more natural communication, and can help with audience engagement.
9. Know your audience.
To communicate effectively, it is important to get to know your audience first. Each audience is different, and will have different preferences and cultural norms that should be considered when communicating. A good way to understand expectations is to ask members of the audience for examples of good communicators within the organization.
10. Add novelty to improve retention.
A recent study revealed that people generally retain more information when presented with novel, as opposed to routine, situations. To help audience members retain information, consider injecting some sort of novel event into a presentation. This might be something funny, or something that simply catches people by surprise.
11. Focus on earning respect instead of laughs.
It can be tempting to communicate with others in a lighthearted way; after all, this can be a good way to make friends in a professional setting. But remember that the most successful communicators are those who have earned respect, rather than laughs. While telling a joke or two to warm up an audience can be effective, avoid ending a presentation with a laugh.
12. Be a good listener.
“Listen more than you talk.” This is what Richard Branson tells business people who want to connect with others. To communicate effectively, first listen to what others have to say. Then you can provide a thoughtful answer that shows you have taken those ideas into account.
Conclusion
Communicating clearly is one of the most effective skills you can cultivate as a professional. Remember to communicate using nonverbal and verbal cues. Listen carefully to what others have to say, and over-communicate in novel ways to ensure the content of the conversation sticks with the audience. And don't forget, it takes a good listener to be a great communicator.
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