Probably, but still seems unfair, as my friend is now contributing as a valuable employee for the company, through my efforts.

I too recommended a friend who got hired, he has 3 weeks, but I got let go at like 65 days. He is still there, but needs to be there 90 days before I get the bonus. Am Istill eligible, do you think?

Well, according to most companies usually it takes 90 days to receive the benefit of the referral. However, you did leave the company so I think you can count it as a lost.