Sometimes bad things happen to good people, sometimes when bad things happen we become better for it, whatever happens, good or bad how we respond to it, is always a choice on our part. Now sometimes we may not have been given the tools to make the right choices, still, it doesn't nor should it excuse or disannul the consequences of the choices that we make. Just like we should not be denied the rewards for the good things that we accomplish, we should not be able to escape the discipline for the wrongs which we choose to commit.