First, I agree with the other comments, being a mother is one of the hardest job and the most important job you will ever have. Congratulate yourself for doing a great job.

Going back to work can be very intimidating. Ask yourself some questions before starting your job search. Do you want to work part-time or full-time? Do you want a big company or small company? Do you want to help others, maybe non-profit. Do you want to work in an office or retail? Answering these questions will help you narrow down your job search.

When I went back to work, I started with a temporary agency. It was a great way to get my foot back in the door and get some experience. You can work a day, a week, a month and up to six months. Only sign up with an agency with a good rating (You should never pay a fee to work for them).

You may want to update your computer skills at your local Community College or online. Check with your local library, they have free resources for women going back to work. Free resume classes, free computer classes and mentors who will help you. Blessings.

Hi Nicqelle, being a mom first off is a HARD job, so it's amazing and brave that you decided to stay home and raise your children. A job would definitely keep you busy now that's for sure and it may help fight those difficulties. I would however also consider seeing someone to talk about those feelings you are experiencing. Depression and anxiety are so tough to face (as I am sure you know)! Sometimes talking to someone really helps. I have heard good things about [this online couseling] (https://www.betterhelp.com/). I know you're a mother and if you enjoy working with children why not consider working at a daycare facility or work as a teacher assistant? They do require certification, but nothing a strong woman like you can't handle!! Just something to consider ; ) We are all here for you Nicqelle, you're AMAZING!

Hi Nicqelle, Welcome to Jobcase! You definitely have skills. You found us here on Jobcase, your post is grammatically correct, and your plea is compelling - this shows us some skills right off the bat. I think your first few steps are to figure out 1.) whether or not YOU really want to go back to work (you say "some say a job would do me good" - what do YOU think?), 2.) identify WHERE you might want to work (at a store, dentist office, hospital?) and 3.) WHICH of those skills will be worth something to an employer. For example: Keep the kids organized? How? Chauffeur little & big people around town? Have a clean driving record? Help with running programs at church? Know how to type? Use the computer? Think of ways to describe how you manage the millions of pieces of your day - and then write them down in your profile. (Don't be afraid, you can always change it if you want.) Once your profile communicates how awesome you are, think about where you can see yourself working. Use the "Jobs & Companies" tab at the top of the page to do some research about what's open right now in your local area - and then revisit your profile and adjust as necessary. It's ok to emphasize some parts of your experience over others (as long as you're truthful). Try applying to a few places and see how it goes, but be aware that the first few applications may not give you much traction. Job hunting can be tough, but you NEED to stick with it to get a good result. Start spreading the word that you're looking for work - and don't be shy about it. (And do NOT say, "I don't think anyone will hire me" to anyone else. Here's the power of positive thinking: there are 70 million+ members of Jobcase & we KNOW you can find something.) Also, consider trying temporary agencies. They often have people available to help you with your resume (just keep in mind that there are good ones & bad ones; if you don't like dealing with one, try another. They get paid when you get placed, so you are valuable to them.) Keep going until you find something.

So... basically, this will be a big transition, but we're behind you. Try some of my suggestions & then come back - we'll help you some more. Good luck, my friend! Marijoy

Hi Nicqelle,

I agree with Alice. The most important thing is going to be finding a position that will be right for you. After looking at your profile, I noticed that you don't have your location listed. Where are you looking for a position right now? This will allow the rest of the community to help out!

Sure you're HIRABLE. You've been working the the hardest job next to the presidency of the US in my opinion. Lot's of transferrable skills involved in Homemaking and Raising Children. Have you looked into taking on temporary assignments or maybe a seasonal job just to get back into the workforce while you find something better? Give it a try.