Is it with the whole family? Are you on the bottom and the youngest? Do you like your family and do you live with them also? Sometimes it can be a good thing My sister and I used t both be flight attendants but everyone talked about my little sister and she ended up getting fired and I stayed on for more than 26 years. So you see there are both pros and cons? If you think this family member will have your back then go for it. They can always quit. Ha Ha!! Lisa Renwick