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Frederick Goff
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Confession: I have an embarrassing sign on my desk that says "remember to try not to say bad words!!!!". It was written by my daughter. Ugh. Not the vision of her Daddy that I would like her to have! I know better than to let curse words slip into my normal discourse, but despite that knowledge it happens way too frequently.
The fact my Dad went through Marine Boot camp and came out cursing and never stopped, or that I worked on a trading desk that started the day cursing and never stopped, or that I have people in my board room that regularly curse - is hardly an explanation - let alone an excuse. I know better.
Now I see this little article in the NYPost that I am not alone in this bad habit. You too? Any suggestions for how I can do better to eliminate these colorful little tics from my discourse?
Figure diagnosis (and confession) is 90% of the cure, so maybe admitting it and reading about it will lead to success in eliminating it... But I welcome thoughts on how to be better at achieving this goal... https://nypost.com/2018/04/18/what-the-americans-cant-get-through-the-day-without-cursing/

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Cursing becomes to common when getting to deal with a lot but WE HAVE A LOT OF THINGS IN COMMON. "?!"

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Ra'mon Johnson
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I am a sailor til the day I die oohrah! but I use silly words or similar sounding ones that make others laugh but takes some the edge off and lightens the moment. My current favorite is Fahrvergnügen!

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Delisa Hall
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Listen to the words of your daughter! God is also listening when we use profanity! Ijs...

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Nancy Jumalon
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Thank you for accepting my application.

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Catherine Allen
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I’m the same damn way!!

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Curtis Williams
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Try saying them backwards when you think ones coming out and once you hear how that makes you sound you’ll stop saying them or have a good laugh out of a bad word

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Douglas Mason
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Hey Fred we ALL do it man. Some just realize it more than others. Kids always seem to notice the bad language. Funny how that works.

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