Drama happens! Some of it is positive-some not. Don't dwell on the negative. It's going to happen. I don't care who you are or what you say, it's true. In a way, I'm glad for the adversity because it teaches you how to deal with issues you would never have seen coming around the corner. If you're always on the mountain-top, what will you learn from it? What will you learn from your valley experiences? Think about it.
I thank G-D for my valley experiences. They have taught me how to persevere in sticky situations and tough times and am stronger in character and faith in G-D as a result of these experiences. Who would you rather go to when you are having a hardship; your mountain top friend, who wouldn't know how to deal with an issue because he or she never had to, or someone that has been through hard times and understands?