Sick and tired of being sick and tired
I love my job I have given them more than 8 years of my life. I’m currently on my 3rd boss. I held the department down when no one else was there. I worked overtime as needed during our busy season. I hired into our system 864 people in only two months by myself last year as well as processed payroll and dealt with any issues. My new boss is younger than me and got promoted to the highest position and has never managed before but we get along great now on a personal level but as my boss she micro manages me constantly tells me what I’m doing wrong and most of the time it’s because there was no communication. I’m a very passive person but have reached my limit. I finally asked her why she was questioning me so much. I vented everything and when we met on Monday she came back making excuses for all the things I told her. I finally said please start looking for someone else I will stay until you do. Well this past Friday I felt some type of way at our company event on because guess who got the spirit award for out department? That’s right NOT me. I’m so disappointed but feel bad for leaving but at this point I’m done. I am a single parent who gets no child support but yet I’m ready to leave now! Thanks for listening
I think your decision to leave is a good one, for your mental health. Your new boss seems to ignore the fact that you deserve a certain level of trust because of your experience. But if she has "trust" issues herself, what can you do? We can't force people to trust us.
unfortunately there are those in management positions who use their title to build their life so that way their ego gets stroked. it would be interested to know how many good employees companies have lost due to egomaniac jerks sabotaging things and the impact it made on that company
Im sorry you are going thru that at your job! I'm going through the same thing I've given my life 11 years almost 12 at my current job. I do the same thing payroll hire you name it. But time has changed and new people come in and these younger ones are quicker and question everything. Theres nothing we can do but be cordial or move on! Sucks when you put in all your hard work. I never get compliment on on our weekly meetings only the bad things smh.
I want a easy job I'm retired
Everybody go through similar situation in life. There are many choices, challenges and opportunities when you take more risk and step out of your comfort zone.
This too shall pass, I know how you feel! God is our strong hold in our time of trouble! Remember the battle is not ours it's the Lord who fights our battle's. Be still and let God be God!! God bless you