Anxiety And Unsure..
Well im 19. ive worked about 2 jobs before. I suffer from anxiety/ depression. I cant keep a job for too long. Im scared of letting anyone down. My family gets really frustrated with me because im not hard working like them. I want ot be the best I can be believe me, But its difficult. I just cant seem to function like everyone else. People say im just dramatic and im hopeless, but I want to find a job where I can be comfortable with. I hope anyone understands me. I want to do something really good for myself and succeed but everythings just crashing... im barely 20.
1st you need to put the job aside for now and work on yourself..you need to get to the bottom of why you are depressed and have anxiety issues and learn to cope with them to get it resolved. I like the comment 1 person said life is what we make of it. so true!! but the job thing needs to be put on hold because not only does it not look good on a resume with the quantity of jobs vs ur age vs how long you can hold a job eventually noone will want to hire you because your on flight.. handle you 1st the job can wait ur only 20
Disability is not always the answer. Not only is it boring, but it just barely pays the bills. Get some kind of support system from friends and family. Your anxiety is mainly fear of the unknown . You can do this , try to think of it as new and exciting, not something to be afraid of. New job, New friends , New life!
Well if your anxiety keeps you from working you can get disability
first of all you need to get into treatment for your anxiety, its no shame in that. if they prescribe medication and seeing a therapist do it sometimes doing both really helps. The psychiatrist will monitor your meds and therapy will help you put you on the right path. I do both and have never been happier because for the first time in my life Ive been doing things my way and not my parents. You need help in sorting out who you really are. Trust me Im going to be 56 and have finally just begun to live my life for me. It took me a long time, but you need to figure out who you really are first. Even if you don't have insurance there are ways to get treatment. Just don't be shamed that you need this kind of help everyone does. Just get the help. You need to get take one step at a time. Just breathe and figure out who you are first and everything else will fall into place. Trust me, been there done that. You have a lot of good times if you do Cathy
No one how has never experienced this will understand! Praying for you Britt!
Unfortunately, virtually no "job" on this planet will meet what you seem to be looking for (i.e., "really good for myself" "succeed"). I don't understand why your parents haven't gotten you the psychologist help you need, but you need some Counseling before your situation becomes critical. You're still very young so don't let your past job experience sit on your mind as being what is likely your future. You can make changes in your behavior that would make you an Acceptable employee and you can learn to take to good with the bad, which EVERY job has to offer.
Put god first. He loves you unconditionally!
Seek out someone you trust such as your Pastor, another member of your family or a counselor and talk through your feelings about yourself and work.
Dig into what things make you happy in general and at work in particular. Try to develop a plan for how you can get closer to a work experience that will allow you to feel more comfortable and where you will be able to make good contributions.
Don't lose faith in yourself.
i like job my dear mam
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