when you have children and you are a single parent you have to fight extra hard to get a job and work and take care of your kids. i'm marrid but when I had my first child I was not married and now i'm in the process of trying to get my older child back and i'm fighting like hell but it's hard and i'm tired of my husband having to support me right now I want to work I want money in my pocket to support my kids I do the best I can right now but when my kids want something and I can't buy it I feel really bad so i'll keep trying to do better.