Joey Martin
over 6 months ago
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" Relationships"

Some people grow up at 18, 25, even 30 ive learned a lot so far about building relationships. My father is my idol and my best friend he has taught me more in life and im still learning. Learning never stops and that goes hand in hand with relationships. I even was in a unhealthy one, but there is always two sides to every story, and i realized you have to be happy with yourself to build relationships and move forward with your life. I believe everyone has a talent from god some have many, but one thing doesnt change is your first impression on someone. You ever think you judge a book by its cover too quickly well not everyone knows someones story behind closed doors. Our generation is so messed up because people dont know how to handle social media without getting jealous. They see what everyone else is doing, but dont want to focus on themselves. If i had to elaborate more on everything i said it is life can be as simple as you make it just dont look at someone elses story, and wish you were them, findout what is right for you. Martin, Joseph martin.

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Alyssa Heiner

This is really great Joey! Thanks for posting it!

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Maria Snyder

Good Insight Joey. That internal personal inventory takes courage.

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Sharay Regan

I agree 100 % with you. I just got out a bad relationship. Tryed too help my ex when he was down and had nothing. Part of me thought hey if he moved from ny too fl with me he must really love me. And im sure he does however he has had so much hurt and pain that he let it effect him in our relationship. The thought that his ex cheated on him. Ha .......so he would always say let me see your phone and i would let him no ? Ask just too make him feel secure. However no woman wants too go threw this everyday we want too be kissed hug appreciate. I was never with him for money because he had nothing too offer but his heart and that's all i ever ever ever wanted. Any got too point where he became controlling and we both wasn't happy. I will love him always but he needs too work on him. Im not perfect i know i need too work on things too but hell i tryed.after a year n half him not working he came too fl. Got a job after 4 months and he was still not happy. Only you can make yourself happy. Its only so much a person can do for you. Only you can find inner peace with yourself. Only you can better yourself in order too make things work in a relationship. It's sad he let his misery destroy the job he just had gotten and he destroyed everything we work so hard too build on.people ask would i take him back hummm he needs therapy and i would gladly take him back as long as he change as well as I. But it's not fair for someone too be helping you and you are nagging all day or walking aroubd looking like the world end. So many people are going thur worst things then what we were going thur and i thought he would count his blessing but i guess it's not his nature. I told him pray things get better he cursed gods name and that alone hurt. Is he tht damaged no faith in god nothing . is he depressed. His moods are always off maybe its something deeper i don't know. Any any advice would help

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Tim Dwelly

To be happy with myself I have to know who I am. What is it about me that that I continue to allow myself to get in these unhealthyrelationships. In doing a self inventory on that relationship, just looking at my part not the other persons, what could I have done better? Is there any way that I could have responded differently to change the outcome of any disagreements? We all do have God given qualities. There's a verse of scripture in the Bible that says "Nothing can separate us from the love of God" no matter what feeling is waging me down,nothing separates the love He has for me. But there are feelings of selfishness, self seeking, dishonesty,and fear that can separate my love for God. If my love for God is separated than Im blinded with self delusion that blocks Gods gifts from working through me.

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Corp. America is great at ruining relationships like they did between my Mom and Dad. After my Dad had a massive stroke, his employers after 10 years of loyal service let him go due to medical discrimination, which was legal back then and still would be if it were up to corp. America. Mom took off with me because no one wanted to hire a someone with a stroke history. Not too much later he then faced age discrimination and died at 60 and I'm sure depression had a lot to do with it. I WISH CORP. AMERICA WAS ONE PERSON SO I COULD KILL THEM SLOWLEY BUT I will have to settle for being an anti consumer and shorting the shit of the stock market when I can. Oh and I would love for Sanders to win so the fat cats will have to cut back on your trips to Africa to kill endangered animals but I'm sure greed will rule the day and they will pass on as much expense to the consumer as they can

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