Sticky situation
Was recently made aware that there’s an awful blog post out there about me from an ex. I did a little searching and managed to have the website get rid of it, but I’m still nervous that employers will stumble across it somewhere. What should I say if anyone mentions it? I’m probably getting worked up for nothing, but I’m still scared.
How can I see the blog post myself?
It shouldn't affect you or even show up if the comments aren't on your personal social accounts but keep checking for discrepancies and/or negative comments about you online. Especially before an interview.
I'm so sorry that happened to you! That's a tough situation. I would make sure you also contact Google to try to get the post off of their search (sometimes it takes awhile for sites to be removed from their search engine). You can find more information here: https://support.google.com/websearch/troubleshooter/3111061?hl=en
I would be honest with anyone who brings it up - and I wouldn't be scared about it at all. We can't always be in control of what others say about us, but we can be vigilant. I don't know what the post says, but it's probably will be clear to many people that it is coming from an ex, so I have a feeling most hiring managers won't be swayed by any of the content on there. Shake it off and hold your head up high! That's what is going to impress the next person who interviews you!
It happened to me. It cost me my job. I was terrified of everything. He had a restraining order, but he made friends online who would come in and spy on me while I was working. Speaking as a more experienced person now, keep your eyes and ears open, and your friends will help you keep on top of things. Because just about ANYONE'S name will show multiple hits from multiple different people, a job hunter cannot just assume that the Carrie Carpenter online is the same one applying for a job. If someone mentions it do not laugh nervously. Be calm (exasperation is ok). Point out that no one is posting about your ability to work.