I was wondering and the decision to me is so harsh now. Dementia elderly should be in nursing home or at home will be better for it ? Its quite sad if send own family to nursing home. Actually she is quite active and not totally forget everything as now jus stage 2 . The social worker also too exaggrate to say it has became worse whereby i dont see it . They have the right to put my aunt to nursing home although i am not the immediate family ? And also said i wouldnt want to take care which i dont even say that . Changing story and insisited to stay home. In this case my aunt rented flat will be terminted . Hope to see any kind soul for help for looking after . Dont need bath for her just chat to make her brain works ..