Trending post
Anita Jacquet
Bullet point
Follow
Independent Contractor at Self

Job reference is also a personal friend

I have this friend who started out as my co-worker when we first met. We worked together six years ago, then several months later, I left the company to attend school, and in that interim he did too. Since then, we are now friends who get together socially sometimes (not in a relationship). He knows me better now than then and says he would always give me a good reference. Can I still use him?

2
10 Comments
over 10 years ago
Like
Comment
Share
Gary Aberle
Bullet point
Follow
Operations Analyst Contractor at Insight Global At Bank Of America

How long did you really work together? Only several months? I'd use as a personal reference NOT professional. There is a difference! If ever called that person will be grilled and it might backfire on you. Surely you can come up with 2 or 3 whom you have worked with?

10y
Like
Reply
Laura Lopez
Bullet point
Follow

Hi. Anita I think that you should It seems to be the perfect person for a reference

10y
Like
Reply
Tina Bell
Bullet point
Follow
Healthcare Worker at Addus Health Care

Yes you can use him but it does depend on what the job is asking there's two kind of references

10y
Like
Reply
Tina Bell
Bullet point
Follow
Healthcare Worker at Addus Health Care

Yes you can use him but it does depend on what the job is asking there's two kind of references

10y
Like
Reply
Jane Cui
Bullet point
Follow
Content Writer Seo Specialist at Jobcase

Tell him to write you a really professional letter and only mention your professional relationship,

it should be fine because you were former coworkers and he knows how you work, plus he knows how you deal with stress and teamwork since you know each other personally

10y
Like
Reply
Rachel Porter
Bullet point
Follow
Customer Service

Good Question Anita.. I've also been there when the relationship suddenly changes and then not being sure if that person is the best option for a job reference. I always try to use previous supervisors or managers and I've even offered the HR department for references. Co-workers seems a little too personal for a professional reference.

10y
Like
Reply
Marijoy Bertolini
Bullet point
Follow
Senior Director of People & Culture

Yes, you can definitely use him! Employers want a range of references, so go for it!

10y
Like
Reply
Todd Wilen, CPA
Bullet point
Follow

Absolutely, he can definitely attest to your work ethic and dependability.

10y
Like
Reply
2
Dollee Magarotto
Bullet point
Follow

Employers look for a healthy mix of references.

10y
Like
Reply
2
Alyssa Heiner
Bullet point
Follow
Opera Singer (Alyssa Koogler)

Hi Anita, I think that would be fine. They know how you work, which is really what a new employer is looking for.

11y
Like
Reply
2
Add