The reason that so many of you are confused about this is because the METAPHOR Pain has been created by the Employers, not Job Seekers. Stop using the word, forget about it! Job seekers, Please read the and concentrate on the JOB DUTIES portion of the Job Offering. Articulate your capability to command an important task NOW! This will have the acquisitions Department (HR), motivated to get you into an Interview ASAP, because you are the Person who is capable of performing the task.....when? Now!