Hi Guys/Gals, I have read a few post today and in a few instances, I got the impression that there are some people who feel that this is an absolute way to find a solution to the situation that they are facing.I for one find that writing and answering these post helps me to get past the things that I am experiencing. This is not a professional report or any form of an absolute answer to any problem that is addressed or posted. We will still have to struggle and fight to gain the ground necessary for us to stand strong and independent. I find this forum therapeutic in a sense that I can clear up the doubt and strengthen my confidence going forward. I don't take every answer as an automatic "push the button" fix. It just feels better to me when I can see other viewpoints to resolving issues that I am having problems resolving on my own. Not every post applies to me, but every post gives me ideas on how to better deal with my issues. In other instances, I am offering ideas that may or may not be useful. It's totally up you "the reader" to choose or not choose the suggestions offered. I wish everybody the best in their endeavors.