Shante Knight
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I have come to realize how important it is to set boundaries. Boundaries are set in place to either keep people from taking advantage of you and/or to keep them from hurting you, whether it is in the form of disregard, disrespect, or disappointment. We must set Boundaries to keep order and peace in our lives. Setting Boundaries can be difficult at times especially when others have already crossed the line, and now we are trying to create them. Well I must say this, no matter when you create them or set them they are very important for your own peace of mind and it also shows the other party that they need to Respect you and the boundaries you have set. So, for me today,,,I going to set Boundaries! #Setting Boundaries

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almost 2 years ago
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Shante Knight

So in other words,,,Boundaries allow you and others to have healthy relationships. When someone can think that they can say whatever to you, treat you any kind of way, hurt you, disrespect you this means they feel like its OK for them to treat you the way that they do. So because there are no boundaries in place they will continue to keep doing them,,,UNTIL,,,you decide to let them know that NO you Can NOT keep treating me this way, you will speak to me with respect, I will not allow you to no longer hurt me because today it's stops. Now, either they can respect you or walk away. But never let a person feel like they have authority or power over you. Without Boundaries you are in control of your life,,,without them you are NOT. Hopefully this helps.

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Nick Hadley

Explain. Put this in prospective for me!

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