Enhance Yourself With Charm

Charm is simply defined as the power or quality of giving delight or arousing admiration. Given it's alluring quality, charm is something that could benefit all of us.

What is the most important quality to possess when trying to win someone over, whether in business or in your personal life? It's charm, the ability to create extraordinary rapport with anyone, and make him or her feel truly exceptional in your presence.

You might think that charm is something that you have to be born with. The truth is charm is something that anyone can learn.

What is Charm

When we refer to charm, we're not talking about table manners, good looks, or being a snappy dresser; we're talking about something much more profound. True charm is something that goes beyond mere appearance. It's that ability to which we respond powerfully and emotionally, almost instinctively. There's no question that some people are naturally charming which gives them an advantage. But charm is the result of using specific skills that most of us know little or nothing about. This means charm can be learned.

From now on, think about charm as a personality quality and skill you can develop by doing the things that charming people do and being the kind of person that charming people are.

What Can It Do?

Those who have charm usually get listened to. They often get extra chances and opportunities others may never get. They can be forgiven for things that others are crucified for. They will be told things that others may never hear. People go out if their way for them, make excuses for them, and always give them the benefit of the doubt.

Five Ways To Be Charming

The deepest craving of human nature is the need to feel valued and valuable. The secret of charm is therefore simple: make others feel important. The more important you make people feel in your presence, the more charming they will perceive you to be. Fortunately, we know how to make people feel wonderful about themselves. These key behaviours can be summarized in the five A(s):

1) Acceptance The greatest gift you can give others. You accept them in their entirety, without limitation. You never criticize or find fault. You are totally accepting of everything about them, as if they were a miracle of nature. This is the starting point of being charming.

And how do you express complete acceptance? Simply put, you smile! At seeing people, when you smile with happiness, their self-esteem jumps automatically. They feel happy and valuable. They like the person who is making them feel this way. They find you charming, even before you utter a single word to them.

2) Appreciation Whenever you express appreciation to others for something they have done, their self-esteem increases. They feel more important, valuable, competent and capable. Their self image improves and their self respect roars.

And how do you trigger this wonderful feeling in others? You say Thank You on every occasion for any reason, big or small. Thank everyone in your world for everything they do.

Here is the double bonus: whenever you smile or say thank you, not only does that person's self esteem jumps up, but so does yours as well.

3) Approval All humans have a deep subconscious need for approval of their actions and accomplishments. The need is ongoing, no amount of it ever satisfies for long.

Perhaps the best definition of approval is Praise. Whenever you praise other people for something they have done, their self esteem is elevated. They feel wonderful about themselves, and they find you more interesting, perceptive, highly likeable and extremely charming.

4) Admiration When you give people a genuine, sincere compliment, they automatically feel better about themselves. They feel acknowledged, recognized, valuable and important. They like themselves more, and they like you more. Always be looking for something to complement, and each time you find something, the other person will like you more and find you to be charming.

5) Attention This is the most important quality of all. It is the most powerful behavior for building self-esteem and is the key to instant charm. When you pay close attention to other people, the more valuable and important they feel they are, the more they will like you.

Final Thoughts

These are the five most powerful self-esteem building tools ever discovered. As you master them through practice, you will become one of the most charming and influential people in your social and professional circle.

Food for thought:
A large part of being a good leader and is the ability to build an outstanding team around you, hiring, mentoring and guiding the team to achieve success both personally and professionally. Finding the right employees with the right mindset is key to moving forward to better performance.

I believe the key to producing successful business is to understand how to cultivate relationships, translate business needs into actionable solutions and empower your team by providing timely information and tools to do their job well.

I believe our ability to create a culture where people can come together to share ideas, solve problems and learn from one another defines the strength of an business, corporation or organization.

When those interactions take place in an environment of inclusivity and collaboration, we will have better experiences and, in turn, employees will perform better…because as a result of those varied inputs and insights, they will become better as a team.

The sky is the limit when we embrace the responsibility to co-create a world where each of us, our communities, and our planet can flourish.

Have an awesome day,

Bobby Glover

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It's almost 2 months into the new year and most people are still working on their resolutions and goals for 2019. When setting goals for yourself whether it's during a job search or to land a new job that will promote new opportunities and growth, it's important to set goals and work hard to attain them. To keep fighting even with the going gets tough!

Never have a lack of goals
If you're bored with life- you don't get up every morning with a burning desire to do things- you don't have enough goals. - Lou Holtz

Vision is everything
If you don't know where you're going, you will probably end up somewhere else. -Laurence J.Peter

Dream enormously big
Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you'll land among the stars. - Les Brown

Persistence makes all the difference
Never quit! It's the easiest cop-out in the world. Set a goal and don't quit until you attain it. When you do, set another goal, and don't quit until you reach it. Never quit! - Bear Bryant

Goals gives our lives meaning
The trouble with not having a goal is that you can spend your life running up and down the field and never score. -Bill Copeland
Setting goals and then working ridiculously hard to achieve them sets you on the path of living a purpose driven life

True success is all about working toward meaningful goals and dreams
A goal is not always meant to be reached; it often serves simply as something to aim at. -Bruce Lee
Achieving our dreams and goals is fantastic but that's not the most important in setting goals.
The most important thing is the type of person we become along the way.

*Stop playing small
*The great danger for most of us lies in not setting our aim too high and falling short;but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. - Michelangelo
There's no benefit from playing small and setting your aim too low.

Where are you headed?
If you aim at nothing, you will hit it every time. - Zig Ziglar
If you don't set your goals in life then it's almost certain that you will be disappointed with your results. You'd be setting yourself up for failure.

Stay Focused at all times
You are never too old to set another goal or dream a new dream - C.S. Lewis
Nelson Mandela was 75 years old when he was elected president of South Africa.
Another man in his 90's ran a 26 mile marathon . Don't ever say you're too old.

I suggest at the end of each week you set up a weekly review and analyze where you are in the process of achieving your goals. This will help you stay on track. I hope you enjoyed some of my favorite quotes. :)

Hi everyone!!

Food for thought for Life:
I feel in today’s world, man or woman is a success who has lived well; laughed often; and loved much; who has gained the respect of people that count and the love of their children; who has filled his or her niche and accomplished his or her task in life; who leaves the world a little better place than he or she found it.

Hardships, poverty, and wants are the best ingredients and the best foundation for the success of a man or woman. I feel our business in life is not to get ahead of other people, but to get ahead to better ourselves and the environment around us.

You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience you lived in your life. You lived through the hard times. I want you to look fear in the face and you fight that fear until hell freezes over.

Don’t let life disappointments discourage you; you only live once, so let’s go get it!
Life is like a sport, play to champion your goals and to learn and grow from your loses.

Have a great day,

Bobby G

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If not you are doing yourself a disservice! Here are 3 reason to write your goals down TODAY.

More likely to succeed: According to a long term Harvard study on written goals; students with written and defined goals earn 10x as much money as the other 97 percent of the class COMBINED. WOW! (Forbes magazine)

Emotion Proof your days: When we are hit with a life blow or are just having a bad day, we can unknowingly panic and get off the true goal path. You may need to find a job before the next rent is due but today the stress is so heavy that instead of hitting your goal for applications submitted you start to look for quick money. Maybe you waste the day doing online surveys that never seem to pay you. At the end of the day your diversion from the goal path has taken you backwards. You lost focus on solutions and worked on short-term fixes. That means instead getting a new pipe under the sink you tape the leak. When we fall off the goal path just like a taped pipe the problem will come back in a worst state in the future.

When our goals are written we can refer to them and avoid the steps backward caused by emotional upheaval.

We know what to do at every moment! The incredible thing about goals is they provide us with a clear direction on action at every moment. We can at any time ask ourselves. “Will this get me closer or further from my goal?” From this point and magic question we can make the choice that empowers our life.

Action steps: Write down some goals that are based on what you desire and not so much based or just escaping the current situation. If you need work immediately set a goal that is passed you just getting a job and is more toward you having the resources you need already in hand. You are a powerful creator of life don’t sell yourself short when writing goals.

You Got This!

You know I don’t even get on this app for posting comments are what ever this app is really for I used this app too make a resume and for jobs . I’m not mad that I made a lot of mistakes in the past but ,I learn form my mistakes . I look around everyone wants something that someone has well I don’t . I like who I am today and I say this becuase a lot of people today are very negative it’s sad sometimes I don’t even think people know that there being negative and some know that they are but swear up and down there trying too give constructive criticism but it’s not really it’s just a power trip too make them selves feel good becuase really for real there not happy in there life are environment that there surrounded by every day . Well I may not be rich and I may not drive a fancy car but I have A high school diploma I’m very intelligent and I achieved a lot of goals in my life I still have more to come so too all don’t let nothing no one stop you stay #Blessed