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Omni Front
about 3 years ago
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No hope anywhere

I have been looking for work so desperately. It's been a year and a half....now I am feeling so depressed. I don't know what to do where to start..

I have been very bright student all this year. Even after all the criticism, I have earned my bechalors degree in Mathematics.. As a female , I felt proud when I finished my study in Mathematics 15 years ago. As usual got married and has wonderful kids. IT industry always attract me so then I studied database. I found a job and worked for a little while but some how I felt to take care of my kids. Man......it was not a good decision I believe in the eyes of recruiter/company.. I know I shouldn't stop working but believe me keeping kids in the hands of stranger was too expensive.. couldn't afford. Is it true that if I don't work, pay taxes , and couldn't make 10 credit i will not have social security or retirement? Do I ever get hired? Should I keep looking or quit . ???

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Jonathan Areyano
about 3 years ago
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Looking for job

Hello ,my name is jonathan m areyano im 17 in a half im going to be a sr in high school at Roosevelt High Hchool in Fresno,Ca and am here to look for a job to support my family and my sick father and my young siblings and my self right were in some hard times.for the past 9 months we been living in a motle and im try to help get us out of there n i have no experience in a job but if you should me ill catch on becuase am a reall good quick learner and ill give you my all to help you with your business. Thank you and please contact me for any job that are hiring.

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Jeanne Joseph
over 3 years ago
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Desperately seeking very part time job

I have an alcoholic husband who had a stroke. I need to get out of the house. I am a Certified Peer Support Specialist and worked as an RN for 22 years in geriatrics. Something using a combination of the two professions would be perfect

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Jill Leigh
almost 4 years ago
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Thankful

When it seems to be the darkest Gods light shines the brightest. I am grateful for a loving husband and the opportunity to serve God in ways I never thought possible.

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Robert Hart
about 3 years ago
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Mr.Robert Hart to Danielle

Danielle, your family is more important than Any job, but you and your family need each other, and you and we all need God first so Trust God in Jesus holy name, praise Father, Son, and Holy Spirit! Jesus can and will guide you about jobs and everything else, as well! Trust God FIRST!!!

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Dusten Ashenfelter
over 3 years ago
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I would not. The pay may be good, but they do not care about their employees. Whether you've been there for years or a matter of months, they have no consideration for family for health.

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Sk Silva
about 3 years ago
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Does anyone else feel nuttier than a fruit cake or is it just me?

Oh my goodness thank you so much for posting what I just read about feeling fruitier than a nut cake. Of course you're not the only nut in the bunch....I'm a complete whack job myself sometimes. I think I am you in another life....mine. i had brain surgery a few years aho after having to quit my job at our city college because my son's father, who happens to be a sex offender, came back into our lives and my son all of a sudden refused to let me leave the house for work. I showed up late then stopped being able to show up at all I was so embarrassed. I quit to be there for my son...then found out I had an arteriovenus malformation and needed brain surgery because my head was in such pain everyday for months. I barely survived just to allow my son's dad back again and go through it all over again with him to the point that hes been in our sons life 2 years out of eleven yet hes able to sue my for custody.?! Exuse my language, but WTF!!!!

But it gets worse....its been four years since brain surgery and i have pretty severe short term memory loss and have been unable to work the past four years since the surgery. I have $600 a month for income and have rotated through so many jobs that social security thibks ive been able to work and provide for my 11 year old and myself, but I have not. To make matters worse I am in pain everyday due to a self inflicted titanium leg and wrist from a previous car accident.

So I wish all I had to do was cover a nine month length of time with no job. But the absolute worse thing of all is that for the past four years because I have a child to support, I have taught myself to work online in most ways imaginable....but still the best job I can seem to get is most definitely a scam. I have fallen for scam after scam almost knowing they were scams, but just hoping that this once it would be real. I have been hired by the same scammers with different scams over and over again.

I have almost completely given up having any hope for myself to succeed, but i just cannot give up...and you shouldnt either. The way I see it is that maybe whatever controls things knows that I could handle whatever I'm going through better than someone else might and continuing forward is only going to make me stronger in the long run.

I just want to succeed to show my family, myself, and the world that even if you have road block after road block, you can succeed of you just continue forward and never give up hope. I think my family gave up on me succeeding once a couple years went by and I still could only get scammed again. They couldnt stand seeing my heart and hope shatter once again. My son and I became homeless two years ago and stay with a very nice relative. But we are still a burden as far as I'm concerned and all I want is to work and make enough to pay back old creditors and support my child. Everyday things seem harder and i get scammed again after putting all of my time and effort into another so-called real work from home position.

So I dont know if I answered any question you had or if I'm just rambling on, but if anybody has a job opening...real in person or from home and is willing to let me prove myself please let me know. I am genuine, trustworthy, and I make myself available to my employer 24 hours a day and 7 days a week if they let me.

The sooner the better because I'm having the hardest time remembering where I'm at with my social security disability paperwork and I know thats cause for denial, but I cannot possibly recall the approximately 35 jobs I've had to leave because I was told I was a liability since having the brain surgery...and we cannot possibly survive on this $600 a month child support from a great kids dad who makes $15,000 a month, but was ordered to pay $600.

Thanks in advance for taking the time to read this and sorry for any inconvenience it may have caused.

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Shannon Pierre
over 3 years ago
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Slowly losing my ambition...... Bad luck!

I'm 25 years old and have held management positions, customer service positions, and post office positions. I have been working since I was 16. I'm sure that is not long to some of you, but I was a very ambitious person. I have held 2 jobs at one time. Now, I am married. No I am not blaming it all on being married to a man in the military but it seems like I am having the hardest time finding a job at his new station. I am usually pretty optimistic. I have a 6 year old son and a 3 month old son. Every time I have an interview and they see I'm associated with the military, they already have the mindset that I will be leaving them soon. They also see that I have had to change jobs because of my status. I have a Bachelors Degree in Human Services. I have worked in social services in my previous state. Now I have applied here in Kansas and I'm not sure what I did wrong. I gave them my winning personality, my experience, my skill set, and more. I am trying to work at a 8-5 job so that I can be there for the kids. Daycare on base shuts down at 6. My 3 month old is on a waiting list which is why I wouldn't even be able to start right away. Day care off base runs anywhere from 200-350 a week out here and this makes me feel worse about working. If I am making the bare minimum, then we would only be able to pay daycare with my additional income. I never had such limited availability which is making me less attractive in the eyes of the employer. What can I do to make myself more appealing? I even have been looking for work at home opportunities and I have found a few but being on a Kansas base means very very very slow speed internet. Most companies want a high speed internet. So that stops that plan right in its tracks. I'm just at a loss. I'm not the average military wife that can sit around and wait for her husband to get paid. We are partners. I truly hate that I can't help at all. He doesn't make but so much. Does anyone have any suggestions on something I can do? Suggestions on how to speed up internet when your limited on bases? Suggestions on how to make me more appealing to employers? Suggestions on work at home opportunities? Suggestions on daycare if you know how it works for infants on base?

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Randall Brungardt
over 3 years ago
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What I loved working at #TheSpringsFuneralServices

Working with the families.

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Gemma Khang
about 3 years ago
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She's breaking me mentally

Sometimes I wonder if I made a good decision on moving here in US and leave my family and friends in the philippines, just to be with wrong people and get mistreated! my mom in law is breaking me mentally. How can you be happy with a life with full depression?

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